tantalism.org - female denial

Experience in the real life of a lady doctor.

Mon, 01 Feb 2010 13:20:01 -0800

I have not talked about my gyno clinic for quit a while. I still have lots of interesting women come in to see me and most are college girls from the nearby university. I love asking them about their sexual activities and listening to some very interesting things. Most seem to talk freely to me about their sex life. Most are single with at least one boy friend. Most masturbate and some play the field. Most like to tease the male students in all kinds of interesting ways.

Last week Susanna came in for an appointment to see me. I am her regular gyno doctor and know about her very active sex life. She has had a few boy friends in the last three years and masturbates from one to several times per day. She is very good looking and sexy as can be. But most of all she love to tease and to enjoy sex.

A time to punish

Sun, 31 Jan 2010 06:28:52 -0800

Things have been very busy with "real life" around here but she still can't be fingering herself to orgasm without my knowledge or blessing. Seems to have been about a week ago. And I was going to pleasure her today, too. Change of plans. So she spent a bunch of time muscles tight like a spring being incredibly slowly stroked and now she sports a tight rubber band on each erect nipple and a generous dose of Tiger Balm down below as regular life resumes. Later a movie with a remote tease, then a fitful sleep and in the am with little people at school the actual punishment: Tweezer clamp on that clitoral pleasure center she abused--now transformed to the source of her pain--and 10 serious strokes of the cane. One for each minute she reports it took her to get herself off. Then I'll take my pleasure as the clamp does its work to make sure my pleasure is equated with her pain. Then I'll go to work.

Hi folks

Wed, 27 Jan 2010 19:47:38 -0800

I found this while trawling Xtube for a few hours... It looks as if she has not been posting there long, I hope she continues. Enjoy...

http://video2.xtube.com/watch_video.php?v_user_id=TonysOnlyScorpio&idx=7&v=qicOy-S737-&cl=5ofMZ-S737-&from=&ver=3&ccaa=1&qid=&qidx=&qnum=&preview_flag=

Just joining after longtime reading:)

Sat, 23 Jan 2010 12:41:49 -0800

Hi everyone. I've been reading this site for quite some time, and have engaged a great deal in short term solo denial. (I'm a real lightweight compared to some of you folks.) Now I have a Dom who controls my orgasms, and it's been very exciting. I think I've spotted some of you all on Fetlife so I thought I might as well show my face so to speak:)

Observations

Mon, 18 Jan 2010 01:35:59 -0800

A few days ago I posted this... http://tantalism.org/node/view/2438

It was to do with a story that goes so far about 5 chapters deep. This story was hosted on a site called The Female Orgasm Denial Blogspot. I have been waiting in eager anticipation for the next chapter for quite a few months and if im right I dont think I will ever read it.

Its a curious thing but over the past years that I have been involved with Female Orgasm Denial I have seen many people seem to loose interest in the subject... I know it takes all sorts to make a world but I always took it for granted that sexual interests were like tastes... If you like Marmite you like it and if you dont you never will. Going back to the above mentioned story for a sec. Its not only the story in this case that has come to a grinding halt but so has the very promising looking website that was hosting it. I dont want to get shot here for making a generalized statement but I'm Really starting to think that in a lot of cases this scenario takes place...

Where my mind goes when my hands go where they like

Sun, 17 Jan 2010 08:06:51 -0800

My master is a man of his word. He teased me tonight, on the phone, but I'm in a period where I'd been told that I'm free. I was on denial for a few days, a gentle denial in which I could touch as I liked but not come, leading up to a tease last night where I knew I'd be allowed to come at the end. I love it all ways - the rough denial where he controls whether I touch myself or not, where he teases me at every chance, where he tasks me to tease myself, and any combination of these - but I love this too, just bringing a hint of D/s into our separation, not pushing my submission. And one of the things that I love is that I know he'd like to take it further, toy with me more, be harsher, but that he doesn't always.

Where my mind goes when I have too much time on my hands

Fri, 15 Jan 2010 18:54:58 -0800

She was at the edge, at the edge, waiting, waiting, waiting... It had been a long time, and he wasn't into endless denial. He might, might, might give her permission...

He pulled her hand away, clipping it to her collar, and began stroking her clit, her engorged, right-on-the-edge clit, with one finger. She struggled and tried to force her cunt up against his hand. He kept stroking her. She was beyond hot, she couldn't stand it, she was begging... I'll stop any time you like, he told her. Just say the word. She was suspicious. This was too good to be true. He must have read her mind. It's true, he said. Just tell me and we'll move on to something else. She wanted to ask what that something else would be, but words had abandoned her long since. The finger continued its maddening tease. I'll keep on until you tell me to stop, and I'll stop as soon as you tell me to. Then I'll birch you.

Whatever happened to...The Story of Dorean West

Fri, 15 Jan 2010 18:29:06 -0800

This story was being created on the http://femaleorgasmdenial.blogspot.com/.

There are a couple of chapters there and then nothing more... Its a pitty coz this was a serious peice of work. Did the writers run out of ideas or did they get fed up?

It is my hope that the story was finished and it can be found elswhere... Does any one know?

Orgasm girl (flash game)

Thu, 14 Jan 2010 21:33:44 -0800

Here's something I thought you all might find interesting. The point of this flash game is to give the girls orgasms without waking them up; but here's where it gets interesting. In order to pull that off, you actually have to edge them several times first (according to the creators). There's even an achievement called "On the edge". Of course, you could tease them quite a bit longer than you need to. I know I did.

ethnicity & denial

Sat, 09 Jan 2010 13:28:48 -0800

This is only from my experience. please dont flame me.

White Girls: the most interested in denial. many seem to get something out of it. easiest ethnicity to convince to try it. generaly pretty good at it (but blondes dont seem to be that great at denying themselves).

Black Girls: the toughest to convince to deny themselves or allow themselves to be denied. not good at it, always want to cum (from sex usually). a frustrated black girl is the most frantic of any ethnicity.

Latino Girls: awful at denying themselves. ive never even seen a latino able to edge herself without giving in. i only have experience with 3 latinos and they were all terrible at it with no willpower at all and just want the orgasm badly.

NCPS .... thats all i can think about........very engorged and swollen

Mon, 04 Jan 2010 02:14:27 -0800

this is from an chat with madame this morning i was in NYC. i was frozen more to cum i just wanted to share
Kisses licks cuffs and slaps
Lyn

lyn121212: Morning. I am thawed out and very very focused today.
lyn121212: Just very swollen. Very much in need. I laid on my bed in tights on my tummy and I felt my clit against the bed. It is like a penis I thought when a man lays on his stomach. I was able to move in such a way to stimulate my clitty. I wanted to finger myself. I needed to be penetrated right then and there. I started teasing Marcella. I was bad. I licked his thighs and his softmess under his clit. Rubbing my clit on the bed. Jenny I didn't mean to arrouse myselr. And now M. I wanted something. Something more. I wanted to be tied or or slapped. Hurt a little

NCPS. Difficult day

Thu, 31 Dec 2009 11:36:05 -0800

It hasn't even been a week I am now cumming. I am wearing my inflatable panties and nylon tights top and bottom. Madame had me tease myself and stimulate my rear plug. My nipples are throbbing and my clit is engorged. I tapped and slapped my clit. I truly believe I could be so close to cumming that I could leak vaginal cum without orgasm. The Madame had me play on a jar. This is embarrasing but I love to be on my knees on the floor straddeling a jar like a coke bottle The jar is right on the butt plug and I rock back and forth probbing the plug deeper and deeper. I can do this for a long time. Today Madame had me do this for 30 minutes. Non cumming keeps me focused on my clit and nipples and ass. I think about cumming all the time. I am 100% or the time thinking about my sex.

Planning for the Novel

Wed, 30 Dec 2009 11:16:55 -0800

I have been trying to map out the basics for the orgasm denial novel project. What I have thus far is the following:

* told entirely from Master's point of view - odd setup for a super-lengthy female orgasm denial tale, but I think I can make this work by having her report her experiences to him when he is unable to actually witness the completion of her assignment (see below)
* slave is a grad student with two housemates who know about her slave status and the rules which govern her
* story begins with slave's orgasm, then Master informs her that she is not permitted to orgasm again until she has physically made 10 other people climax first

NCPS 100 days continued

Tue, 29 Dec 2009 05:02:22 -0800

Monday. This is day two of non cumming. Madame has been gentile with me to date. My sub ND has been frustrated with me. Then I met a new cyber Mistress GS who started domming me right away. She lives near me a I wasn't thinking I started even disclosing more. Soon I was wrapped up in this new dynamic. She wanted me to be more uncomfortable and called me names. She told me to put on my egg while I was at work and I did. I struggled and did not cum. She continued her assult and I again demanded she get permission from Madame. CS refused. I sent the chatting transcript to Madame so I could do the right thing. She was furious. Very disappointed in me. I was to be punished.

Seeks Control

Mon, 28 Dec 2009 03:50:33 -0800

I am new to this site but not new to Orgasm Control.
I've always felt the need as a woman to ask permission before cumming - as I'm sure some of you can appreciate this wasn't always met with understanding by vanilla men.
I've explored alot as a submissive female but after a short period (less than a month) of orgasm denial last year it has been something I can't get out of my mind.
It's the control aspect I crave rather than specifically the denial, control is to me sometimes denial sometimes forced orgasm - giving up the control and the right to choose is what gets me going.
I'm not suited to long term denial I don't think unfortunately as it raises too many issues with insomnia in me and it seems that even with tease and edging the sleeplessness it caused just made me bad tempered and after a couple of weeks I lost interest but I wondered if this was because my denial didn't include any penetration.