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Tied Up And Teased

Mon, 08 Mar 2010 12:56:00 -0800

I hope you enjoy,

...is seeking

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 18:42:53 -0800

I am once again seeking one who craves this and is willing to manage her fears, do what is required, and looks forward to a whole new level of existing.

Serious inquiries only, please.

Delayher@gmail.com
(put Tantalism in subject line so it's not deleted as spam)

Switch Revenge Fantasy

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:29:04 -0800

I was thinking today, when I should have been working, about switch specific fantasies. I used to belong to Natalie Demoreâ��s Bondage Orgasms, which I think is an awesome site. One of the themes she repeats is a scenario where one girl is domming another girl, only to have the situation reversed and she ends up being the one dommed. Essentially, a switch revenge fantasy.
Of course this reminded of a girl I used to date. Okay, not date per se, but play with. She was very pretty and had amazing breasts â�� just the perfect size, shape and perkiness. Typically, I would bind her hands behind her back and take her over my knee. Iâ��ve spanked a fair number of ladies in my life, but never as hard I would spank her. She loved it. The harder I hit, and the longer I spanked her for the better. Then I would re-bind her to the bed, spread eagle. I usually put clothes pins (pegs) on her nipples. I would tease her a little and edge her, but only a couple of times as I wasnâ��t as into T&D then as I am now. Then I would make her cum, untie her and have her give me oral sex until I came.

Sensitive, Tingling and Plump

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 11:15:42 -0800

I decided to try some of that lip-plumper lip gloss that my spa sells the other day. I noticed that it made my lips really tingly and kind of tickly/sensitive. So, twisted girl that I am, I thought I would try it on my nipples.

I used to have a Dom who had me under orders to us one of those stiff tongue-cleaning brushes on my nipples twice per day and apply alcohol to them and let them air dry, and I still do this sometimes when I am dressing up to go out. I enjoy feeling that secret undercurrent of sexuality that I used to love when my Dom would direct me to treat my nipples and edge before going out in the world. Then have some task for me to perform while out.

hello to all!

Mon, 01 Mar 2010 08:47:54 -0800

hello everyone. i guess it's proper form to say that i've been around this site for a bit, but am just getting around to saying hi. so, hi everyone!

i figured i would start out my blog with a little narrative about myself. i am a switch. personally, i think switches make the best doms/subs, since we understand the psychology of both. i find that i go through cycles of dominance and submissiveness. right now, i'm cycling dominant. extremely dominant.

i've never had a full on bdsm relationship. i've had girls that wanted to be lightly dominated, spanked a bit, and some that have wanted to be occaisionally dominant. i find bdsm, and lately tease and denial, to be the subject of my masterbation though. always.

This Week's Command in weekly_command

Thu, 18 Feb 2010 05:55:13 -0800

As mentioned previously, I run a community, weekly_command on LiveJournal, which gives the female slaves a particular command or task - sometimes an action, sometimes a writing assignment. This week's command is a task, and one which would likely be of interest to readers here, either to complete themselves or as idea fodder for something to use with their subs/slaves:

Find a two-hour period during the week in which you can comply with this command without being interrupted.

Lay naked on your back upon a bed, floor, table, sofa, etc. However, you are to remain on your back for the entirety of the two hours, so choose carefully. There should be a clock nearby - one which you can read in the dark if necessary, as timing is critical.

Here

Mon, 15 Feb 2010 12:43:01 -0800

she suffers, therefore, she exists...

I am the beginning and the end of her suffering...I am the cause of her suffering, therefore, the cause of her existence.

I am the recipient of her suffering - it feeds Me - her need nourishes Me - enthralls Me...

she is that I may be...Me

A simple command

Fri, 12 Feb 2010 22:20:30 -0800

I find that tons of instructions are a waste of time. I usually only give one instruction. Get your clit as hard as you can for me, without cumming. Then stop.

Simplicity is better sometimes.

Experience in the real life of a lady doctor.

Mon, 01 Feb 2010 13:20:01 -0800

I have not talked about my gyno clinic for quit a while. I still have lots of interesting women come in to see me and most are college girls from the nearby university. I love asking them about their sexual activities and listening to some very interesting things. Most seem to talk freely to me about their sex life. Most are single with at least one boy friend. Most masturbate and some play the field. Most like to tease the male students in all kinds of interesting ways.

Last week Susanna came in for an appointment to see me. I am her regular gyno doctor and know about her very active sex life. She has had a few boy friends in the last three years and masturbates from one to several times per day. She is very good looking and sexy as can be. But most of all she love to tease and to enjoy sex.

A time to punish

Sun, 31 Jan 2010 06:28:52 -0800

Things have been very busy with "real life" around here but she still can't be fingering herself to orgasm without my knowledge or blessing. Seems to have been about a week ago. And I was going to pleasure her today, too. Change of plans. So she spent a bunch of time muscles tight like a spring being incredibly slowly stroked and now she sports a tight rubber band on each erect nipple and a generous dose of Tiger Balm down below as regular life resumes. Later a movie with a remote tease, then a fitful sleep and in the am with little people at school the actual punishment: Tweezer clamp on that clitoral pleasure center she abused--now transformed to the source of her pain--and 10 serious strokes of the cane. One for each minute she reports it took her to get herself off. Then I'll take my pleasure as the clamp does its work to make sure my pleasure is equated with her pain. Then I'll go to work.

Hi folks

Wed, 27 Jan 2010 19:47:38 -0800

I found this while trawling Xtube for a few hours... It looks as if she has not been posting there long, I hope she continues. Enjoy...

http://video2.xtube.com/watch_video.php?v_user_id=TonysOnlyScorpio&idx=7&v=qicOy-S737-&cl=5ofMZ-S737-&from=&ver=3&ccaa=1&qid=&qidx=&qnum=&preview_flag=

Just joining after longtime reading:)

Sat, 23 Jan 2010 12:41:49 -0800

Hi everyone. I've been reading this site for quite some time, and have engaged a great deal in short term solo denial. (I'm a real lightweight compared to some of you folks.) Now I have a Dom who controls my orgasms, and it's been very exciting. I think I've spotted some of you all on Fetlife so I thought I might as well show my face so to speak:)

Observations

Mon, 18 Jan 2010 01:35:59 -0800

A few days ago I posted this... http://tantalism.org/node/view/2438

It was to do with a story that goes so far about 5 chapters deep. This story was hosted on a site called The Female Orgasm Denial Blogspot. I have been waiting in eager anticipation for the next chapter for quite a few months and if im right I dont think I will ever read it.

Its a curious thing but over the past years that I have been involved with Female Orgasm Denial I have seen many people seem to loose interest in the subject... I know it takes all sorts to make a world but I always took it for granted that sexual interests were like tastes... If you like Marmite you like it and if you dont you never will. Going back to the above mentioned story for a sec. Its not only the story in this case that has come to a grinding halt but so has the very promising looking website that was hosting it. I dont want to get shot here for making a generalized statement but I'm Really starting to think that in a lot of cases this scenario takes place...

Where my mind goes when my hands go where they like

Sun, 17 Jan 2010 08:06:51 -0800

My master is a man of his word. He teased me tonight, on the phone, but I'm in a period where I'd been told that I'm free. I was on denial for a few days, a gentle denial in which I could touch as I liked but not come, leading up to a tease last night where I knew I'd be allowed to come at the end. I love it all ways - the rough denial where he controls whether I touch myself or not, where he teases me at every chance, where he tasks me to tease myself, and any combination of these - but I love this too, just bringing a hint of D/s into our separation, not pushing my submission. And one of the things that I love is that I know he'd like to take it further, toy with me more, be harsher, but that he doesn't always.

Where my mind goes when I have too much time on my hands

Fri, 15 Jan 2010 18:54:58 -0800

She was at the edge, at the edge, waiting, waiting, waiting... It had been a long time, and he wasn't into endless denial. He might, might, might give her permission...

He pulled her hand away, clipping it to her collar, and began stroking her clit, her engorged, right-on-the-edge clit, with one finger. She struggled and tried to force her cunt up against his hand. He kept stroking her. She was beyond hot, she couldn't stand it, she was begging... I'll stop any time you like, he told her. Just say the word. She was suspicious. This was too good to be true. He must have read her mind. It's true, he said. Just tell me and we'll move on to something else. She wanted to ask what that something else would be, but words had abandoned her long since. The finger continued its maddening tease. I'll keep on until you tell me to stop, and I'll stop as soon as you tell me to. Then I'll birch you.