rman's blog

Note: I think I posted this the wrong way, so I'm reposting. Apologies in advance if I accidentally double-post.

I've been meaning to get this written down for a while, and finally did after a bit of encouragement. This is how my finacee and I spent our Memorial Day. I hope you all enjoy it.

--r

This past Memorial Day, we decided to spend the day driving her up the wall. We'd talked about some ideas in advance, but once the day started, I had a lot of liberty to do what I wanted and to decide what she could do. The day started with a slowly-progressing petting and makeout session in bed. I focused on getting her nice and turned on, and it didn't take too much effort.

My fiance (henceforth "K", because I'm lazy and don't want to delurk her without permission) and I just moved up to Boston, so I've been out of internet contact for about a week and a half.....looks like I missed a bit of excitement. Welcome to all the newcomers/delurkers--I hope you all enjoy (and hate :wink:) the site as much as the rest of us.

K and I have been both too busy and too stressed to have much fun lately, but I'm sure I'll have more exciting adventures to post once we're settled in the new apartment. At the moment, I'm something of an inept househusband. I'm between jobs and kind of lazing around the apartment, getting a couple of things done every day. Now that the bulk of the move is finished and I have a bunch of empty hours to fill, my mind is quickly wandering back to the realms of sex, denial, and kink in general. Given that, I'd wager that things may get interesting here again soon. :wink:

My fiancee and I have been slowly starting to explore our interests in denial. We've run into a bit of a snag because we're both very new to the "controlling" side of it, but we're getting the idea. Also, I think we have different views on the length of denial--she's not too keen on the idea of multi-day denial, but I'm working on it. ;)

After much discussion (and testing), we agreed to become fluid-bound this weekend. To build up to it, I put a limit on her number of orgasms for the weekend. The catch, of course, is that she didn't know the limit. She wanted some idea, so I gave her the range "2 through 10". Yes, I know I'm too generous, but she's someone who can come pretty much as many times as she wants, so any limit is a limit. Small steps, right? :)

Hey everyone! I haven't been around in a while because of some craziness in my life, but figured I should send out an update if I'm going to start lurking again. ;) The culmination of the insanity was when I moved across the country (CA to TN) to be with the woman of my dreams (mentioned in a previous post). Our story is all very sappy and reads like a slightly-twisted romantic comedy, but now that the dust has settled and we're done moving, things are going really well. Unfortunately, we both got a bit sick on our trip across the country (2100 miles in 3 days isn't always easy), so no interesting tales for the board just yet. I'm sure there will be, though, and I'll try to be better about just lurking.

Well, after my somewhat whiny post about not having enough "hands on" experience with denial, the fates decided to smile upon me. :)

This past week I've spent a bunch of time with a friend of mine because she's moving back to the east coast (actually, she left this morning). We knew we wouldn't have much time, but decided to make the most of it while she was still around. Even aside from having the best sex I've ever had, we had a truly wonderful week.

That's all well and good, yes, but not the point of the post. Last night, which was her last in the area, we spent a good amount of time fooling around--making out, light petting, that sort of thing. Once she started getting a little more.....insistent.....I slowly took off all of her clothes (except panties) and gave her a long, drawn out massage. You know, the kind where your skin starts to tingle and you just want to get to the sex as soon as possible, except it feels too good to complain? Something like that. :)

While we were dating, I introduced my last girlfriend to the wonderful world of tease and denial. It had been a fantasy of mine for years, and though my fantasies generally had me in the bottom role, she quickly became interested in taking that position herself. After the first time I watched her fight off an impending orgasm, thrashing about on the bed, legs moving of their own accord, face contorted, I knew I would be doing this often. *grin*

And so, we reach the point of this entry: the game of chance I devised to make things more interesting. I would take a subset of a deck of cards (say, all values from 1 (Ace) to 9) and think of a number in my head (usually around 12). I would then tie her arms to the bed and begin teasing her however I wanted (usually some combination of oral, vibrator, vibrating egg, and just standard sex) until she was about to cum. When she couldn't hold back any more, she would guess a number, and if the top card matched it, she'd get to cum. If not, I'd stop for a minute or two, then start again. The number in my head determined how many times we'd play this game, so she never knew when she'd be done.