"This suspense is terrible. I hope it will last." — Oscar Wilde

What is tantalism.org?

We're a friendly community focussing on the delicious buildup of tension fueled by the prolonged supression of orgasmic release. We share and discuss erotic stories, fantasies and experiences involving this rather intense kink.

If you are in any way offended by material of a sexual nature, or it is illegal for you to access such material, then we respectfully ask you to leave.

What kind of content will I find here?

While the initial focus of the site is on female orgasm denial, some male-oriented content will be welcome. We'll endeavour to keep the two as separate as possible, but do recognise that many people are interested in both aspects. However, diversity is important, as we do not wish to be overrun with heterosexual, submissive male fantasies. We find that such material is over-represented on the Web.

We aim to redress this imbalance by providing a haven for the less commonly expressed points of view. There may be material here which you will find distasteful, but we will endeavour to label or categorise submissions to allow you to make informed decisions about what you're reading.

How do I find my way around?

There are several different ways to navigate the site. At the top of the page, in the banner, you'll find a number of links to different areas of the site. In the sidebar, you can look at "recent posts", or use the navigation menu to narrow down the material to suit your personal preferences.

How do I create content?

To submit content to the site or add comments to existing entries, you will first need to register as a new user and accept the conditions. Once you have done that and are logged in, you will find a "create content" link in your main user block at the top of the sidebar. This will allow you to create stories, blog entries, forum posts, weblinks and other types of content. You can also add comments to existing entries, and directly create content from within other areas of the site.

What rules govern my submissions?

As long as you aren't doing anything illegal, or being deliberately hostile toward other users of the site, you can submit whatever you feel is appropriate and on-topic. Forums and blogs are unmoderated, but most other content is. We won't censor dirty language, or controversial ideas and fantasies, so feel free to express your innermost thoughts. That said, administrators do reserve the right to remove inappropriate material or cancel user accounts at any time, without warning or explanation.

Is that all?

For the time being... We'll continue to improve this document as the site evolves and as time permits. If you wish, you can contact the site administrator by sending an email to: webmaster at tantalism dot org.