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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to tantalism.org, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

Please (do)n't?

So wet, so needy, that several times last night I truly wanted to cum. No sense of regret, no feeling that I would have gotten off before the ride was over, I truly wanted to cum.

And then my brain started *imagining*. I imagined my Master telling me 'No' when I'm so desperate to hear yes. I imagined him telling me to sleep with his cunt stuffed, filled with fake cock just to remind me what a slut I am. I imagined not being allowed to cum at the end of May, being told No despite truly desperate pleas for yes, to be reminded that this is for his pleasure, not mine.

Exp Dom 42 seeking submissive female who craves Orgasm control and Guided masterbation on a regular basis

Experienced Dom 42 searching for a submissive female 18-40 to explore primarily Orgasm control/Tease & Denial based submission. If you enjoy the thought of giving up control of when, where, how often and in what way you receive pleasure/orgasms then don't hesitate to get in touch.

So close

Finally back to a state of needy depravity. As is always the rule, I'm not allowed to touch at all without permission. My Master is a busy man, which makes my crazy horny days that much more delicious. I want to touch, tease, and torment so badly, but any kind of touching is off limits. I love looking at my toys when horny though. Thinking of my vibrator on and pressed against my clit, thinking of my dildo filling me up and making me squirm.

Finally

Wearing nothing but a set of clover clamps with a silver chain running between them, my pussy dripping down my legs, a tray of champagne balanced on one hand, and guests in black tie, utterly indifferent apart from the occasional tug on my chain that makes the glasses clink together.

permanent frustrated bliss

Desire won't leave me alone. It's bizarre when your kink and your actual sexual dysfunction form a symbiotic relationship of their own. Imagine a world where you are addicted to denial, and you experience anorgasmia as a side effect of "everyday life" medicine. Sounds like heaven, right? Well, yes and no. In a brief moment of private free time I was able to enjoy that feeling. I logically know that I am unable to cum...no matter what. I will struggle to feel this bliss when real life interferes, but that struggle will continue to heighten those moments of frustrated bliss.

Week 2

Last weekend ended with another session and another meh orgasm. Then my sex drive just shut off completely for a few days and I was in a weird emotional funk. I think that had more to do with stuff going on in life in general though. It started coming back online around Wednesday, so I started edging again. I am feeling pleasantly horny, but still emotionally out of sorts. The weekend is going to be a busy one and include some family visits so I'm not even sure we'll get to have much sex.

Weekend with my Master

My Master just visited! We had a great venture through a sex shop - he made me change into a micro mini skirt there. Was deliciously humiliating to approach the counter in professional attire, ask for a fitting room or restroom where I could change, and to come back out dressed like a whore.

The weekend update

I spent Friday wearing my ben wa balls after edging every day since Tuesday. We got home around 11 or so and he did fuck me as promised. I used the vibe and came, but it was a weird, unsatisfying orgasm. I should've just teased and stopped like I planned to earlier. Maybe the fact that I planned to do that messed up my orgasm? Either way, :/

pop challenge

should you choose to accept this challenge I only ask that you share the results in the comments section. get some music that you like with a good beat and masturbate to the music. use whatever lube or toys you need or enjoy. the goal is to edge and stop until the time expires resting only five sec. in between edges. If you edge less than fifteen times, continue for another twenty min. no orgasm allowed. If you edge fifteen to twenty times, to may stop but no orgasm allowed. If you edge more than twenty times in twenty min. you may cum. anyone can repeat the challenge whenever they like.

Making progress

I haven't checked in on here in a while - as someone mentioned earlier, this site is getting a bit quiet and part of the fun of sharing on here is getting feedback, so. Anyway.

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