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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

Week 2

Last weekend ended with another session and another meh orgasm. Then my sex drive just shut off completely for a few days and I was in a weird emotional funk. I think that had more to do with stuff going on in life in general though. It started coming back online around Wednesday, so I started edging again. I am feeling pleasantly horny, but still emotionally out of sorts. The weekend is going to be a busy one and include some family visits so I'm not even sure we'll get to have much sex.

Weekend with my Master

My Master just visited! We had a great venture through a sex shop - he made me change into a micro mini skirt there. Was deliciously humiliating to approach the counter in professional attire, ask for a fitting room or restroom where I could change, and to come back out dressed like a whore.

The weekend update

I spent Friday wearing my ben wa balls after edging every day since Tuesday. We got home around 11 or so and he did fuck me as promised. I used the vibe and came, but it was a weird, unsatisfying orgasm. I should've just teased and stopped like I planned to earlier. Maybe the fact that I planned to do that messed up my orgasm? Either way, :/

pop challenge

should you choose to accept this challenge I only ask that you share the results in the comments section. get some music that you like with a good beat and masturbate to the music. use whatever lube or toys you need or enjoy. the goal is to edge and stop until the time expires resting only five sec. in between edges. If you edge less than fifteen times, continue for another twenty min. no orgasm allowed. If you edge fifteen to twenty times, to may stop but no orgasm allowed. If you edge more than twenty times in twenty min. you may cum. anyone can repeat the challenge whenever they like.

Making progress

I haven't checked in on here in a while - as someone mentioned earlier, this site is getting a bit quiet and part of the fun of sharing on here is getting feedback, so. Anyway.

Want to be a mess all day

For my first post here, I decided I want to share a fantasy day I hope my Master will allow me to try. I've woken up less horny than I like and that just seemed like a waste of a perfectly good Sunday. So I sent this fantasy to him.

Cumming between shaves

How about only allowing her to cum between shaves? By that I mean this:

She must grow out a "full" bush in order to be able to cum. Then once she cums, she is shaved (or waxed) completely bare and cannot cum again until her bush grows fully back.

"Full" can be defined as a certain ruler measurement of a sample of say 10 pubic hairs. Say she has to have at least 10 pubic hairs that exceed an inch in length when fully "stretched" and measured.

Exp Dom 41 seeking submissive female who craves Orgasm control or has always fantisized but never had the chance to act.

Experienced Dom 41 searching for a submissive female 18-40 to explore primarily Orgasm control/Tease & Denial based submission. If you enjoy the thought of giving up control of when, where, how often and in what way you receive pleasure/orgasms then don't hesitate to get in touch.

Exercise denial !

Fans of "predicament bondage" will enjoy this tease............

First you need an ordinary gym weight bench like this:

And two pairs of thumbcuffs: one to lock her thumbs together, and the other set for locking her big toes together:


a collection of some good links from reddit. some has been posted here before.
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