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Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

female denial

Female orgasm denial.

Cumming between shaves

How about only allowing her to cum between shaves? By that I mean this:

She must grow out a "full" bush in order to be able to cum. Then once she cums, she is shaved (or waxed) completely bare and cannot cum again until her bush grows fully back.

"Full" can be defined as a certain ruler measurement of a sample of say 10 pubic hairs. Say she has to have at least 10 pubic hairs that exceed an inch in length when fully "stretched" and measured.

Exp Dom 41 seeking submissive female who craves Orgasm control or has always fantisized but never had the chance to act.

Experienced Dom 41 searching for a submissive female 18-40 to explore primarily Orgasm control/Tease & Denial based submission. If you enjoy the thought of giving up control of when, where, how often and in what way you receive pleasure/orgasms then don't hesitate to get in touch.

Exercise denial !

Fans of "predicament bondage" will enjoy this tease............

First you need an ordinary gym weight bench like this:

And two pairs of thumbcuffs: one to lock her thumbs together, and the other set for locking her big toes together:


a collection of some good links from reddit. some has been posted here before.
no user / password os needed and reddit has some other features as well

2 weeks

Its been 2 weeks since my last orgasm and im getting very desperate, I havnt felt this horny in a long while, I miss this feeling of constant arousal and longing to cum, im always wet and my clit swells everytime I think about my denial and not being allowed to cum. Im dripping wet as I write this and probably will be the rest of the day

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Whose responsibility is it?

Reading the blogs on this site left me always wondering - Whose responsibility is the denial?

The usual ways women describe their experience here are about "being good", "holding back", "not disappointing", "stopping before going over the edge". All that sounds more like self-denial to me. There seems to be always possibility for failure, to linger on the edge a bit longer than needed and fall over the other side. It's all very whimsical.

slut edging and squirting

a slut edging and squirting.
Tease your self for 48 hours without orgasm like you are used to , that means at least 2 sessions a day.
Then masturbate for 20 mins so you are really horny and having mikro orgasms.
Now start a 15 mins recording where you tell the tumblr users 3 things while still teasing without orgasms:
1) your likes and turn ons
2) what kind of slut you are
3) a detailed gangbang fantasy of yours


Havnt written here in awhile, just thought I would stop by with an update :) ive been on several denial journeys in the past year or so, all of them were were great they all left me a horny desperate mess and then at the end brought the greatest orgasm ive ever had. Ive been left to stew in my horniest for weeks at time and Ive enjoyed every minute of it. At the moment unfortunately I dont have a sir any more so I havnt been teased and denied for awhile which sucks but hopefully I can get back into it soon.

Timed orgasm challenge

So after a long period of denial, she is allowed an opportunity to orgasm. But, as always, there is a catch......

She is presented with a small "bullet" style vibrator, a real cheap weak one like this:

Then she is locked in steel "mitten" handcuffs:

She has 5 total minutes to make herself cum using the vibe, which those mitten cuffs will make difficult!

Female Tease of the Day 20

1) Get either a smooth chopstick or a plain wooden pencil

2) You may rub just the sides of your clit upward and downward as many times as you like, but count the strokes.

3) For every stroke you counted you must snap the pencil or chopstick directly against your clit.

4) You may repeat steps 2 and 3 as much as you like.

5) No orgasms allowed. You may not cum

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