Tantalism: A teasing or tormenting by the hope or near approach of good which is not attainable.

Welcome to tantalism.org, an exploration of the delicious tension arising from thwarted sexual release. We hope to provide a friendly community atmosphere, and a hotbed of eroticism for devotees of this kink. Diversity of input is encouraged, as we prefer to travel the less worn paths, including female denial, same-sex activities and the extreme bounds of fantasy.

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Female denial

Lots of new content

female denial | experience | hetero female | hetero male | dom male | sub female | bondage | butt plug | corset | crop | masochism | sadism
Slut and I have been on a bit of posting frenzy. Several new posts and videos are up. There's a punishment video, a beating and a ruined orgasm video. Slut talks about her punishment and having a bunch of ruined orgasms over last weekend in the two posts. Enjoy. Eye-wink

http://sirandslut.blogspot.com/

Dildo Spear Video

female denial | experience | hetero female | hetero male | dom male | sub female | bondage | dildo | exhibitionism | mask | rope
The first of our videos Slut and I did together is up. I use a dildo spear. It's rather long, so hopefully no one gets board. Sticking out tongue

http://sirandslut.blogspot.com/
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"The Master Alchemist", by Ladakh

female denial | fantasy | story | dom male | sub female | *occult | abstinence | masturbation | stories
A tale of transcendent sexual ecstasy. Here's an excerpt...

Rose had allowed herself to be enslaved by her master because he seemed so kind and caring at the time. He had sworn to temper her spirit in readiness for "the rapture" and committed himself to work her mind and body into a state of molten sexuality. She smiled to herself for a moment as she remembered his sincerity and dare she think it, his strange submissiveness prior to their contract. That feeling aroused her again; she liked the idea of being dominant and yet here she was in common slavery to a man that commanded her like a dog. A good little doggy though, she beamed proudly, remembering her accomplishments.
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Intensity of your closest "edges", as compared to a nice full orgasm? (open to all)

female denial | poll | bi female | bi male | hetero female | hetero male | homo female | homo male | solo female | solo male
80% or more
60% (3 votes)
70-79%
40% (2 votes)
60-69%
0% (0 votes)
50-59%
0% (0 votes)
40-49%
0% (0 votes)
30-39%
0% (0 votes)
20-29%
0% (0 votes)
10-19%
0% (0 votes)
less than 10%
0% (0 votes)
Total votes: 5
Gilkane's avatar

Why Orgasm's are part of her denial...

female denial | experience
Alright here is the question in a nut shell...Why are they necessary?

The human body is an amazing thing it can adapt to nearly any physcial state required. Every human response causes a chemical reaction and response from the human brain, a glan in the brain creates what are called peptides, these are little information cells that are a response to a physcial condition or emotional state, since every physcial condition generates an emotional state, these peptides are program with receptors that look for simular receptors in your blood stream and other glands. So say someone is alway depressed, the brain creates an abundance of peptides that look for a cell with a receptor for depression, lock in and aid in maintaining that state...it becomes in a sense a mindless addiction, everything we do drink, eat, lust, get angry all have the same response, the more you get of one physcial and emotional state the more you need for it to give you that same feeling.

Kims fustration

female denial | experience | bi female
Hi all, wanted to post about my increasing sexual fustration. Sir NS has me nearly out of my mind with orgasm denial. My fustration is even more pronounced knowing how much others enjoy my suffering. Nites are the most difficult after my edges. i must say this, i never would have thought that i would deny myself of such pleasure of having orgasms. Does anyone know if there is a way of ensuring i don't inadvertantly have an accident ? Sir NSs slave kim
constantlycraving's avatar

New videos to share

female denial | miscellany
I have posted new material in my blog. Please enjoy and know this agony is consuming....and I am suffering every minute of it.
always
craving
LisaMarie's avatar

40 Days

female denial | experience | hetero female | dom male | sub female | abstinence | masturbation
Today is day 40 of my denial. To some that may not seem like so much, but to me, it's a lot. Before I started this denial the longest I had gone on my own was about a week. Election day was supposed to be the day that I got to cum, but circumstances prevented that, and Sir has convinced me to wait until Thanksgiving in America. Next Sir wants to convince me to wait further after the first week in December.

It's getting to the point where I'm always wet that the ache is in my conscious mind and I take it with me where ever I go. The arousal is becoming a part of me and who I am. I think it will be strange not to feel that for a while, even if it's only a short while.

Liquid V

female denial | experience | solo female | masturbation
It's been 9 days now and I still haven't had an orgasm. I had a weekend away with a friend where we stayed with my family and we were so busy the entire time I didn't get any teasing done. I tried while in the bath last night but I was exhausted and just flat out didn't care and it was almost 1 am. So I went to bed. Eye-wink

Because of the lack of teasing since Friday, I've lost most of the desire to cum (still got my mind on sex though that's for sure!) but I'm planning to change that pretty immediately now that I'm home. My Liquid V came right before I went out of town so I've only gotten to play with that once.
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I have updated my blog!

female denial | miscellany | homo female | sub female | *torture
Please come and see my latest pictures. I make them all myself and they concern my favourite fantasy of pussy torture.

http://hurtmypussy.blogspot.com

I would love to hear your thoughts, fantasies and see any contributions...

Sophie
xx